1. Be there, make time for your friends. Life can be busy with many things going on in the family, which can swallow up your precious time. Take that time for friends because that is also time for yourself. This time moves you away from being "so and so's Mom" and to being a woman and a friend again. You'll find that even if it's just an hour a week that that hour becomes so precious that you schedule your family time around it.
2. Let your friends know that you care. If the snowy days of winter have you yearning to become a hermit, use that time to network in cyberspace with friends. A quick note or a small chat and they know that you are there AND you are thinking of them. It doesn't take long but the ripple effect is tremendous!
3. Shut up! No, I'm not being mean, but just shut up and listen as your friends speak. This can be difficult because as women, we're always trying to fix everything, but think about the times you need to talk. You need to talk, so when it's your friend's turn, listen and let them talk. Watch as they purge what's on their mind then begin to actually relax and enjoy the company! Taking that time is saying, "you matter, I'm listening, I'm there for you."
Simple steps to establish your friendships forever. These are the people when kids move off and go to college and start their own lives that will be there to listen when you need someone. Take the time today and enjoy the benefits through your lifetime. Now pick up the phone and call that friend!
Ok, so I didn't pick up the phone, but thought I would at least let you know what a good friend you are. No matter how much time goes by, we pick up right where we left off... thank you for that :)
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